
Retired U.S. Army Sgt. Maj. Ivory Hinton had to pause several times to compose himself while addressing a group of Gold Star Mothers, civilians and U.S. military service members gathered in Arlington National Cemetery’s Memorial Chapel on Sept. 29, 2024, for the annual Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day. He paused the first time after listing three soldiers who were killed in Iraq under his command. “While I hold memories of each of them close to my heart,” he said before pausing, “it was Spc. Lucas Elliott who was the most recent KIA under my leadership in Basra, Iraq, on July 15, 2011.” He paused again, this time longer, before explaining how losing men under his command had tested his resolve.